stars, sex and nudity buzz : 07/06/2012

* The guy deserves a Pulitzer for asking the most important question on the minds of all the celebs-nudity perves around the world.....

Will Katie Holmes Resume Nude Sex Scenes Now That She is Single
Post image for Will Katie Holmes Resume Nude Sex Scenes Now That She is Single (Pic and Video)Katie Holmes was not shy to strip down for the camera pre Tom Cruise. Mr. Skin lists Katie Holmes as being nude In 1998 flick Disturbing Behavior and in the Gift in 2000. Katie Holmes striped down to bare her chest in both films. Holmes also burned the screen up in multiple flicks with intense sex scenes Teaching Mrs Tingle is a prime example.
Now that Katie or Kate as Tom Cruise refers to her is now single, we are wondering if she is ready to start dropping her laundry again on film. Katie is scheduled to start shooting her first post-Cruise film Responsible Adults. Responsible Adults is a romantic comedy and we are wondering how romantic Katie Holmes is preparing to get in the new film.
If Katie Holmes is looking to push Tom Cruise’s buttons rolling around in bed naked with another man is a great way to do it. Katie Holmes is still an a-list actress so during her rebirth we do not expect to see staged nip slips, “hacked” cellphone pictures or drunken wardrobe malfunctions. But as she has proven in the past she has no reservations about nudity on film.
We do think that her prudish hiatus in films is over. We are betting there is some full frontal nudity coming if not in Responsible Adults soon in her future. Until then you can check out a past Katie Holmes nude picture and video here.

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Brian McKnight's Official YouPorn.com Anthem (Uncensored Version)

Brian McKnight's Official YouPorn.com Anthem (Uncensored Version) powered by YouPorn.
R-and-B singer Brian McKnight has released the music video for his controversial ode to adult video sharing site YouPorn.com. The video, shot at McKnight’s Los Angeles home, finds little rapper 5-cent cavorting with 15 adult starlets by a pool.
McKnight makes a cameo as the video’s director and his sons, Brian McKnight Jr. and Niko, who provide guest vocals on the track, also make an appearance. The “YouPorn.com” anthem is a follow-up to McKnight’s “If You’re Ready to Learn,” a raunchy little diddy about female masturbate and orgasm.
The Grammy-nominated artist, best known for romantic hits such as “One Last Cry” and “Back at One,” has received a lot of backlash from long-time fans who feel betrayed by his new adult-oriented direction. McKnight, however, has dismissed all criticism by stating that his new projects are all in good fun.
“YouPorn.com” features cameos by adult starlets Bree Olson, Alexis Texas, Annmarie Rios, Brandy Aniston, Monique Alexander, Angelina Valentine, Taylor Wane, Helly Hellfire, Sarah Peachez, Nikita Von James, Cassandra Cruz, Aleksa Nicole, April O’Neil, Christie Stevens and Jynx Maze.
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My heart goes out to Jennifer Love Hewitt 
- still in grieving process in wake of her mother's recent passing.
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Don't want to sound callous or cruel but her mom was instrumental in making sure Jen remains a top nudity-dodger for more than a decade.
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Stupid Americans : Topless Pool Party (Music Video)
Ras Kass continues to blend genres with a newly formed group. Following his Spit No Evil project with Doc Hollywood, the Cali spitter has put together a "cross-genre" group dubbed Stupid Americans, which his camp says provides "an outlet for innovative new music from established artists as well as newcomers to the industry."
Rasy kicks off the group by smoothing things out with the summer banger, "Topless Pool Party," which debuts with this NSFW music video. In it, the rapper spits verses about summer life by the pool over the DJ Katch and Efe production while you enjoy random footage of women (in skimpy bikinis) by the pool.
The track can be downloaded at Ras Kass' Soundcloud page at Soundcloud.com/RasKassCentral.

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Miss USA Alyssa Campanella Bares Boobs in Risque Shoot
What set Alyssa Campanella apart from previous Miss USAs was her lack of scandals. But now, she has shed the good girl image for a sizzling new pictorial in which she goes topless and bares her breasts.
The Donald Trump-owned pageant is always embroiled in some scandalous story. Rima Fakih, who won the 2010 contest, has had various troubles with the laws, and Tara Conner was publicly spanked by Trump for engaging in cocaine use and making out with another beauty queen.
In other words, if you're looking for intelligent, moral, classy women, you might not want to watch the Miss America pageant instead. But, Campanella, who hails from California, broke the mold for recent Miss USA winners. During the question and answer session, she provided intelligent and articulate answers.
So, why is she embracing her inner bad girl now? Is Campanella hard up for cash? The photos, which are borderline porn, include one in which the former Miss California is wearing a jean jacket and nothing underneath. Other photos push the envelope even further.
This year's Miss USA competition also featured some serious infighting and backstabbing. Two of the losing contestants claimed the winner, Olivia Culpo of Rhode Island, was preselected and didn't deserve to wear the crown.
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* It's nothing to do with money but everything to do with Kate Upton recent racy photo and video shoots with TR. Miss Upton is the 'IT' girl at the moment. Kate's success is all about her boobs and curves and the babe knows how to market those assets. So it's no surprising Alyssa is following the same route. What suppose to be mildly risque Slavin photo-shoot turns into full-blown topless shots. More to come (if my e-mail contacts are to be believed) depending on the public reactions and so far it's been 50/50. My full support goes out to Alyssa. Here hoping she will pose full-frontal in Treats! magazine soon.
But she will have to go a long way before she can match the multi-talented Miss USA 1991 Kelli McCarty in terms of popularity and notoriety. 
If Alyssa works hard, channels her inner nympho-ism, mingle with the wrong crowd and snorts the white magic to cope with the pressure of attaining stardom, we may have the privilege of seeing her in a soft core flick down the road. Who knows....she well could be America's own Sara Tommasi. 
I believe it's time for me to take my medication. I'm over fantasizing again.....


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Ensaio "Naturelle" para o libertine.nu.
Fotografia: Libertine Guy
Assistente Fotografia: Bruno Rabelo
Filmagem: Guilherme Soares
Edição: Libertine Guy
Modelo: Ana Paula
Trilha: "Swell Window" by Zee Avi



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Your sperms are dying inside my mouth right now, goddamnit!
memorable segment from Louie : Season 3 [Episode 2] (5 Jul. 2012). Melissa Leo is sensational and Louis C.K....offbeat as usual.


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If All The Presidents Got High, This Is Probably What It Would Look Like

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The Sad Story Of Hollywood’s First Naked Lady : Audrey Munson 
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You've never seen an Audrey Munson movie, but you might have seen the many statues of her in Manhattan. Now learn the sad story of the first woman to get naked in a motion picture. Artistically pictures within.

The Sad Story Of Hollywood’s First Naked Lady, Audrey Munson
Audrey Munson's career began like a fairy tale. Her life ended like an existential horror movie.
While it's unlikely that you've ever seen any of Munson's films (she appeared in four silent movies, all thought lost until recently, when one was discovered in a French archive) you may have seen her face - at least if you've ever been to New York City. Munson's career began as a sculptor's model, and her likeness is enshrined in at least 15 statues dotting the island of Manhattan. Perhaps the most notable is the USS Maine Monument at Columbus Circle, or the golden statue Civic Fame atop the Manhattan Municipal Building (most famous for movie nerds as where the Ecto-1 drives when visiting the Mayor in Ghostbusters). She's also immortalized in dozens of other sculptures around the country, and her figure made up 75% of the female sculptures at the Pan-Pacific Exposition in San Francisco in 1915 (the World's Fair, essentially).

Civic Fame, atop the Manhattan Municipal Building
Munson and her recently divorced mother arrived in New York City (either from upstate New York or Rhode Island, accounts vary) in 1906. Munson was 15 and dreamed of being a dancer; one day while walking the streets she met a photographer who, struck by her beauty, took her on as a model. The photographer introduced Munson to the famed sculptor Isidor Konti, and from there she quickly became one of the most sought-after models in all of New York. She was a socialite and a media darling.
In 1915 Munson moved to California, probably on the heels of her experience modeling for the Pan Pacific Exposition statues. New to Hollywood she broke a major barrier, becoming the first nude woman to appear in an American movie. This may require a bit of explanation: as you would expect, one of the first things to be made using a film camera was pornography. In this case it was a recording of a striptease in 1899, with the earliest record of a hardcore porn film in 1908. By the time that Munson was in California there was already a stag film industry, possibly located in South America but definitely also taking advantage of the young girls moving out to California.

Munson in Inspiration, a lost film from 1915
Munson's breakthrough was to be the first naked woman in a non-porn movie. The movie was Inspiration, and Munson was cast as a sculptor's model. In the film she appears naked a number of times, re-enacting famous poses from paintings. The mixture of high art and nudity forced the censors to back off, and Munson's future films were all in the same vein - young girl disrobes as a high art model. The four movies were thought lost, but apparently a single copy of Purity exists - although it has not been shown to the public. The film's synopsis gives you a sense of what Munson's films were like:
Purity (Munson), a simple country girl, comes to the city and is hired as an artist's model. A young poet becomes obsessed with her, and is distraught when he learns she has been posing nude. But his distress is diminished when he finds that she intends to use her income from modeling to publish his poetry.
The movies were successes (I found a San Francisco newspaper article touting the arrival of Purity at local theaters, claiming thousands were turned away during the New York run), but Munson moved back to New York in 1919. In 1921 she made one last movie, Heedless Moths, which is notable for a couple of things. It's another movie that has Munson playing a model - this time herself - but Munson contributed to the story this time. And Hedda Hopper, later to become Hollywood's nastiest gossip columnist, also stars.

Munson in Heedless Moths, her final film, also lost.
Munson and her mother ended up staying with a wealthy Long Island doctor and his wife; after a while the wife began to suspect her husband had fallen for the famous model. She kicked the Munsons out; not long after the wife turned up murdered. Her husband was convicted, despite claiming burglars had done the crime, and he hung himself in his jail cell.
During the 20s Munson wrote a series of articles for William Randolph Hearst's New York Journal American, mostly about modeling and modern standards of beauty. “All girls cannot be perfect 36s, with bodies of mystic warmth and plastic marble effect, colored with rose and a dash of flame,” she wrote. “Of course not.”
In another article she considered her own legacy: “What becomes of the artists’ models? I am wondering if many of my readers have not stood before a masterpiece of lovely sculpture or a remarkable painting of a young girl, her very abandonment of draperies accentuating rather than diminishing her modesty and purity, and asked themselves the question, ‘Where is she now, this model who was so beautiful?’”

One of Munson's columns in the New York Journal American. 
Not long after, things began to get bad for Munson. The fallout from the murder case had destroyed her career, and she and her mother returned to upstate New York, living in a town called Mexico. Munson began claiming she was engaged and would become a Baroness. In 1922 she attempted suicide by poisoning herself; this sparked a media frenzy and the tabloids of the time investigated her beau but couldn't find any such person in the world. She seemed to have made him up.
Once the center of attention, Munson began staying home, avoiding others. A series of barn-burnings in her town aroused suspicion, and in 1931 she found herself in front of a local judge. He sentenced her to be incarcerated in an insane asylum... where she would spend the next SIXTY-FIVE YEARS. Audrey Munson died in 1996, aged 105.
Munson was suffering from depression and possibly schizophrenia; in modern times she would have been treated simply with medication. In her own time it was a life sentence. She was 39 years old when she entered that asylum - she lived more than half her life locked away as a madwoman. She lived an entire lifetime locked away.
Immortalized in stone during her lifetime, Munson today is anonymous in death. She was buried in her father's cemetery plot in an unmarked grave.
Audrey Munson in Purity, believed to be her only surviving film.

Note: some of the dates and details of Munson's life are hard to nail down. Please excuse any minor inaccuracies. 


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Women attending a how-to sex show-and-tell seminar in Russia(?) 
* Apparently Russian dudes likes to be fisted in the shithole.

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Shameful sex pics are trending on Twitter 
This girl wouldn't have imagined her naked picture trending on Twitter
Overshare ... this girl wouldn't have imagined her naked picture trending on Twitter
SHAMELESS blokes are being encouraged to post pictures online of semi-naked sleeping girls as part of a new social networking trend.

Hordes of men have uploaded an intimate picture of an unsuspecting woman as they lie in bed after spending the night together.
This sick stunt — which was dubbed #bedofshame on Twitter — was the idea of Geordie Shore reality TV star Gaz Beadle.
He kicked off the trend by asking his 500,000 Twitter followers: “How many people r doing the walk of shame hahahaha #wakeupwitharandom #awkwardtaxihome.”
Within minutes, he was inundated with positive responses from his army of adoring followers, many of whom described Gaz as a “hero”.
The grinning men, some even posing with their thumbs up, took the snaps on their phones, with their sleeping female bed partners in the background.
They then uploaded the snaps on to the social networking site. 


Bed of shame Twitter pics
Boorish ... blokes posted their pics on Twitter

By the end of the weekend before last, Twitter feeds across the country were being filled with these disturbing pictures of vulnerable women.
Many of the snaps were captioned with derogatory comments, such as: “Woke up next to some sl*g” and “#boshhh”.

Bed of shame Twitter pics
Bedmates exposed ... images from Twitter
Shockingly, many of the girls — whose identities we have hidden — were naked or semi-clothed.

Geordie Shore star Gaz Beadle
Shameless ... Geordie Shore star Gaz
The unsuspecting ladies were humiliated further as immoral Gaz — who has slept with a number of girls on camera during the two series of the MTV show — and his thousands of followers retweeted the photographs across the site.
The hashtags #bedofshame and #awkwardsundays went viral, with Gaz urging the men to do it again next week.
He tweeted: “Loved #BedOfShame #awkwardsundays. Defo doing it again next week yer?”
Many of the people involved vowed to get #bedofshame trending next week, too.
Some tweeters have been appalled by the phenomenon, with one user, @AmyH0310, saying: “So #bedofshame is a pretty revolting way to use Twitter.”
Many of the pictures are still up online.

myView By DEIDRE SANDERS, Sun Agony Aunt
HOW vile of these men to spread photos of the girl they’d spent the night with around Twitter.
It’s yet another example of how too many guys these days see women merely as objects to be used and have absolutely no respect for them as people.
Today’s under-30s have grown up in the era of readily available internet porn, which has given them the idea that women are just a commodity. There is no excuse for their behaviour, but women do need to be on their guard.
If you have sex with a guy you’ve just met that night or hardly know, be realistic that he is not going to have genuine feelings for you beyond lust. He may well just see you as someone foolish enough to satisfy his needs without him having to concern himself with your needs and feelings.
It’s yet another reason to stick to what might seem like old-fashioned values but is actually common sense.
Save sex for someone special who you know cares specially for you – and the last thing they will do is shame you on Twitter. 

* Deidre is freaking delusional. While I'm not condoning these latest disgusting fad but let be clear - the women are using the guys as well. Deidre is also alluding that women should use sex as a weapon to toe the boys in. You can forget it in this day and age. One-night stand have become so easy and common thanks to drunk chicks. I don't even have to use dumb pick-up lines.

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You're About to Find Out Who Robert King is: One Man Porn Mission To Destroy The Cyberlocker Market

By design the porn industry is often to be found at the extremes of the human race’s moral compass. So recently, when one industry man began a campaign with a stated aim of bringing the cyberlocker market to its knees, one might expect things to have gotten a little dirty. Well they have – absolutely filthy – just ask Putlocker, ExtaBit, TurboBit and a growing list of others, all victims of a concerted operation to strangle their finances and put them out of business.

The mainstream music and movie industries have their own preferred techniques to make life difficult for cyberlocker services. From the wholesale destruction method employed against Megaupload, to the more subtle inclusion of sites such as RapidShare in government-directed reports, there are a number of strategies employed to put sites under pressure.

At times, the MPAA and RIAA are accused of using dirty tricks, but their outright denials and favorable framing of controversial issues means that the mud often fails to fully stick. But compare that to the action currently being taken by elements of the adult industry against a wide range of file-hosters, and we have a veritable mudbath in which the players not only relish the dirty tricks, but cheerfully admit to them at every turn.

For the past couple of weeks, Australian-born adult industry businessman Robert King (known online as AdultKing) has been doing everything in his power to screw up the lives of what he calls the “bad players” of the cyberlocker market. The 45-year-old has no qualms about his mission, or the methods he’s employing to complete it.

“What I hope to achieve is very simple. I want to tear apart the illegal file locker industry by removing its supply of funds and then ultimately removing its supply of network connectivity,” King told TorrentFreak.

King’s tactics focus on sites that sell premium subscriptions in order to provide users with improved access to user-uploaded content even though, importantly, those sites have no part in providing it. Secondly, he’s aiming for sites that pay members cash for uploading content that achieves many downloads.

“I decided to take this action because I was fed up with watching businesses profiting from stolen content and illegal content while doing so under the guise of ‘user uploaded’ or ‘internet freedom’,” King adds.

And the Internet, King says, is something he feels strongly about. Not only does he claim to be a vocal opponent of Australia’s proposed Internet censorship laws, he says he also played a part in building it.

“I was involved in the embryonic stages of the Internet in Australia having a role within APANA which provided network access when almost nobody could get it unless they were in University. Julian Assange was also one of many Australians involved in APANA and most of us ran APANA nodes which let people dial in and connect to the Internet all connected to central hubs.”

But ‘internet freedom’ and what some file-hosters and their users are doing couldn’t be further apart, King insists.

“In the main file lockers are simply modern-day ‘fences’ of stolen goods. Just like a thief would take a stolen television or car radio to the pub and sell it for a few dollars, there are thousands of people around the world who take copyright content, upload it to an incentivized file locker, then get a few dollars to as much as $30 for 1000 downloads of that content.”

In an attempt to bring these sites down, King has been utilizing a hugely controversial approach. One by one, King has waded through a laundry list of sites, searching their indexes for files that appear to contain not only regular copyright-infringing material, but also animal and child pornography. He then reports his findings to PayPal and other payment processors.

“Not content with merely hosting child porn, many file locker sites also host bestiality,” King explained at the start of his campaign.

“Our friends at PayPal make money from each premium sale of this material to people who download it.”

At first, King got nowhere with PayPal, but through persistence something changed recently. During the last week or so King says that PayPal has been cutting off services and freezing the funds of a wide range of file-hosting sites including Putlocker, ExtaBit, TurboBit, UptoBox, Cloudnator, RYUShare, BulletUpload, BackUpload, RGHost, NitroBits, FireGet, FileMates….and the list goes on and on.

Also raising eyebrows is the impression that King appears to have detailed, presumably private, information on the nature of measures taken by PayPal against the sites in question. For example, against PutLocker, the 346th most popular site in the world.

“PutLocker have had their Paypal accounts terminated. All funds have been frozen for 180 days and in that time they cannot withdraw or transfer funds. They may no longer process any payments through Paypal,” King reported today. So how is he getting information like this?

“I worked hard to develop relationships with people from all sectors of the payment processing sector. Initially I had no luck reaching anyone at PayPal who could help me, however I persevered until I was placed into contact with the right person and now have ongoing dialog with them. I have also established dialog with several other credit card companies and 3rd party payment processing services,” King explains.

“Unfortunately I cannot go into how information is exchanged or shared as I do not wish to give the targets of my campaign any insight into the methods or strategies we employ to remove their payment processing ability. Suffice to say, these companies do their own independent investigations and do not solely rely on our information.”

But a nagging question remains, and it’s raised time and again by King’s reports on his campaign site StopFileLockers. What real proof does he have that the files he’s finding on these file-hosting sites do indeed contain the content that their titles suggest, especially when there is reference to children and animals?

The answer, it seems, is none whatsoever. Nevertheless, King insists that’s irrelevant.

“Personally I don’t know whether a file entitled ’12yogirlraped.avi’ actually contains a movie of a 12-year-old girl being raped or a legal adult video being named a misleading file name. It would be stupid of anyone to download it to find out unless they were involved in law enforcement in that field.

“However the mere connotation that there are files named this way is, in itself, unconscionable. Where we find a systematic pattern of what appears to be child pornography based upon file names we refer the matters where possible. We are not about to download the material ourselves to find out what the file actually contains. This is a job for policing and child protection agencies,” King notes.

King’s activities are causing fury among both users and the file-hosting companies themselves but none approached by TorrentFreak would comment on the record. However, some appear to be taking their own action in response. One locker, NitroBits, has threatened to sue King.

“If this is how you want to destroy our legal business you are wrong,” the company told King. “We do not allow any kind of illegal material, and if you have uploaded illegal material to NitroBits, and reported it to PayPal I will make sure I will take you to the European Supreme Court!”

Others are less straightforward. King says he’s been DDoS’d and has received threats against his life, but he doesn’t appear to be taking them too seriously. With the help of a team of volunteers he says he will continue and at the moment envisages a three month campaign – which he is funding – to achieve his goals.

So should other file-lockers be concerned at the prospect of having their PayPal and other payment processing facilities withdrawn too? King says he’s pushing hard for all file-hosting sites to be an unacceptable use of PayPal but currently the processor isn’t going that far, instead preferring to move on a case-by-case basis.

And that case-by-case basis, once PayPal have been informed that a problem even exists, raises an interesting point.

King says that PayPal are doing a “fairly good” job in their response considering the millions of accounts and transactions they have to process – after all, they can’t monitor everything that goes on via their service.

So, applying the same reasoning, the vast majority of file-lockers will not have anything to do with the content being uploaded and, once they are alerted to a problem, will take action as the law requires. However, rather than being given the benefit of the doubt and the same room to move as PayPal, they’re finding their finances strangled instead.

For King, it sounds like a no-brainer. Why bother with a million DMCA notices when a concerted effort can cut off a company’s ability to do business in one swoop? Filth sticks, it seems, and the adult industry has that – and determination – in spades.
  

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BuzzFeed.com Interviews Penny Lane About Sex Addiction In Porn
Jennie Ketcham, formerly known as porn star Penny Flame, was a contestant on Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew, and is now the author of the memoir I Am Jennie, out July 10.


Q: Can you talk about your decision to leave porn and go on Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew?

I decided to go to rehab [in 2009] because I thought it would really help my porn career. The way that porn works is you have to always be willing to give up more — you start with girls, and then you have to do guys, and then anal. It's a progressive thing. Once you've done everything you're willing to do, there's nowhere else for you to go in porn. You can go into the business side, or you can escort, or you can go into stripping. I wanted to go into the business side, and I thought Sex Rehab would be a great promotional tool for me. But once I checked into rehab and couldn't use sex or drugs or men or women or anything to numb myself, I realized I didn't have the coping skills a woman of 26 should have. It was time to make some changes. And with all the feelings that started to come up during rehab it was obvious that porn wasn't an option anymore.

Q: What kind of feelings?

The awareness that I'd been using people and drugs and the industry as a means of numbing myself. The awareness that I had no marketable job skills at 26 — that was horrifying. I didn't want to spend the rest of my life in porn. A lot of women in the business say they're going to do this for a few years, and it's going to get them to x or y or z. It's always a means to something else. But it became really obvious when I was in rehab that I didn't have anything else.

Q: What was your recovery from sex addiction like? I understand you were abstinent for a period of time, but you aren't anymore.

It's just as unhealthy to go on not having sex forever as it is to have sex the way I was. So I define my sobriety around things that were unhealthy for me, like using my body to get things I wanted from men and women. My wardrobe changed dramatically in sobriety, from skirts that looked like belts to Gap jeans.

I learned to have conversations that weren't based around sex — asking people how they are, asking how I could be of service to them, and not in a sexual way, but just how can I help you make your life better today? I have been in a relationship since November 2009 — we made it official in the beginning of 2010 — and a big part of being in a healthy relationship for me is communicating. It's really difficult because I have to be really open and vulnerable and honest, and a lot of times I have difficulty being honest with myself, let alone another human being. We don't have any secrets from each other, and secrets were a big part of my old life.

Q: When you met, did he know you'd been in porn?

The first night I met him, we were at a party and I was trying to flirt with him. I didn't know how to flirt because I'm not good at flirting before I've had sex with somebody. I was talking about the weather or something, and [director] Duncan Roy came over and said, "She's one of the biggest porn stars in the world." But [my boyfriend] just said that everybody's got a past, and it's good that it's behind you and you're taking steps to get past it. He's had his own journey and things he's struggled through too — not porn or selling sex, but other obstacles he's overcome.

Q: Why did you decide to write the book?

I was inspired after I started my blog, Becoming Jennie. More than anything I started the blog so I wouldn't be tempted to go back to porn. Then I got such a positive response to that from people who had seen my videos and people in the industry, and somebody approached me and said, "You should really write a book about all this." That person was someone who had the resources to help me do so. I didn't have the confidence to take that kind of thing on when I started blogging, but with support I could do it.

Q: What do you think of discussions in the past few years about whether sex addiction is real?

It's understandable that there are a lot of questions about sex addiction, especially because sex is something that's paramount to our nature. We have to have sex. And in America you're either virtuous and a virgin or you're a total whore. It's hard to talk about what healthy sexuality is because it's difficult to talk about sex at all. So unfortunately the exposure sex addiction does get is related to cases like Tiger Woods and David Duchovny. Whether they are sex addicts is up to them. I think what's good about that kind of exposure is people who are struggling with their sexual behavior, whether they identify it as an addiction or not, know that there are places they can go and people that can help you. I know that for me, the behaviors of sex addiction are absolutely parallel with alcoholism.

Q: How common would you say addiction of some form is in the porn world?

I think it's probably very common. I don't think women would end up in porn for as long as they do if they weren't chasing something else. Women can make $15,000 a month, and that's plenty of money to live on. And you start looking into girls' finances and talking to people at agencies, and it's like, these girls can't pay their fucking bills. I don't know if it's drug addiction or some other financial ruin behind it, but it's pretty prevalent. But it's not talked about, because a lot of things aren't talked about. You don't know people's names, you just know if they have a clean bill of health and if they're willing to sign a W-2 to take it up the ass.

Q: Is it possible to do porn in a healthy way? Is it compatible with a healthy life?

There have been a few women that I've talked to that do seem really psychologically healthy. Like Nina Hartley, what an awesome lady. She knows what she wants, she's very sex-positive, she's in a healthy relationship. Women like that give me hope that it's possible, but I've got to say that a lot of people that get into the industry are not Nina Hartley. They're not as mature as Nina — I'm not just talking about age, she knows a lot about life and the way that things are. But a lot of people that get into the industry are 18 and just want quick money.

Q: What would make porn better for performers?

I do think there are things the industry could do to create healthier standards, but I don't think it's likely because it narrows the pool of prospective performers. I think it could be good if we were to have psychological testing to make sure performers were of sound and stable mind and understood the consequences. But I think what would be more realistic in terms of providing a healthy environment would be for someone to provide psychological counseling for women in the industry. As it stands now there's just no place to talk about the shit you experience as a performer, where you don't feel like you're going to be judged.

Q: A lot of people say porn is bad for society — what's your response to that?

Talk about a sticky thing to talk about. I try really hard to have no opinion about any of that. The truth of the matter is porn is not healthy for me to engage in. And a lot of people I know in porn, it's not healthy for them. For the people I know personally, which is anecdotal but all I can really talk about, porn hasn't been the best thing for them emotionally or psychologically. How that radiates into society I'm not sure.

Tristan Taormino goes to a lot of lengths to make sure the people performing in her films are comfortable, and she likes to make sex-positive and female-friendly porn. I think it's kind of awesome and super-hot to watch other people have sex, but the introduction of the financial exchange changes things, especially for the people performing. Maybe not for everyone, but it did for me. I'm sure there are people who can watch porn and it's not a problem, and it doesn't create false ideals of the women that they are with or would like to be with. But I don't think people that have a healthy experience with porn are really going to be that into talking about how it's totally fine. The squeaky wheel gets the oil — the people with the problem are the ones who talk about it.

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